When You Need Comfort, Guidance, or Both: A Grief Tool With No Rules
- Debbie Squizzero
- Dec 28, 2025
- 3 min read
Why Oracle Cards Are a Powerful Tool for Grief
Grief is deeply personal. There is no roadmap, no finish line, and no “right way” to move through it, or grow through it.
When someone we love passes, the pain can come in waves. It can sometimes show up as quiet and manageable, other times it can feel overwhelming and unexpected. In those moments, what many people truly need is not advice, but comfort, reassurance, and gentle guidance.
That is exactly why I created the Eternal Love: Messages from Heaven for the Grieving and Healing Heart oracle deck.
This deck was designed to support grief in all its forms. Whether you are seeking a loving message, a sense of connection, or a practical tip to help you navigate another hard day.

Messages and Tips for Growing Through Grief
What makes this oracle deck unique is that it offers both heartfelt messages from Spirit and practical tips for growing through your grief.
Some days, you may need:
A message that reminds you your loved one is still near
A connection that brings comfort and reassurance
A gentle tip to help you cope, ground yourself, or process emotions
Or both—a message and a tool to support you emotionally
The deck allows you to work with it in whatever way feels right in that moment.
You can:
Pull only a message card when your heart needs comfort
Pull only a tip card when you’re feeling overwhelmed and need support
Or pull one of each when you’re seeking both connection and guidance
There are no rules, and that is intentional.
Who This Deck Is For
This oracle deck was created to be accessible and supportive for many people, including:
The everyday person in grief navigating loss day by day
Therapists and grief counselors looking for reflective, client-friendly tools
Healers and energy workers supporting emotional and spiritual healing
Mediums and intuitive practitioners who appreciate heart-centered messages
Anyone supporting a grieving loved one and unsure how to help
You do not need special abilities or spiritual experience to work with this deck. All that’s required is an open heart and the willingness to receive.
How to Gently Integrate the Deck Into Daily Life
You don’t need an elaborate ritual. Simple, consistent moments often bring the deepest healing.
🌿 Daily Emotional Check-In
Ask yourself: “What do I need today?” Then choose whether you want a message, a tip, or both.
✍️ Journaling for Healing
Pull a card and write about:
What the message brings up
How the tip could support you today
What your loved one in Spirit might want you to know
🕯 When Grief Feels Heavy
On anniversaries, holidays, or sudden emotional waves, let the deck be a safe place to land without judgment or pressure.
💗 In Therapy or Healing Sessions
Therapists and healers can use the cards as a gentle conversation starter or grounding tool for emotional processing.
There Is No “Right Way” to Grieve
The most important thing to know about this deck is this:
✨ There are no rules for working with it. ✨
You don’t have to pull cards daily. You don’t have to understand everything immediately. You don’t have to be strong or positive or “doing grief right.”
You simply work with the deck in whatever way brings you comfort and peace.
That is what it was ultimately designed for ...

to meet you where you are, honor your grief, and gently support your healing, one moment at a time.
Order your deck at: debbiesquizzero.com
💞 Healing people, one soul at a time.




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